2010年3月30日星期二

Life After Divorce: Choosing a Happy New Year

like your job, Inflatable Advertising 42 -Don t reli on life s circumst to make you happy. Life chang all the time. Stuff happens. Just look at your own life and you will see that to be true. If you depend on life s circumstances. to make you happi you ar set yourself up. Happi is a state of being. It is about your insid and not the outside. If you can onli be happi when everyth is go your wai you ar in for troubl becaus that is not the true natur of life. You and not your circumst determin your happiness.

the abil to conscious choos is our most power attribute. Choic is our and our alone. Choos to commit to live thi on preciou life of your as a happi personThe New Year is the proverbi time to make resolut about our lives. Thi year mai I suggest that you resolv to make an empow choic for yourself? Choos to have a Happi New Year. As human beings..

" I wish I had not taken thing so damn seriously",W have all heard the stori of the wisdom that is reveal at the end of someon s life. One hears. "I wish I had laugh with my kid more", I wish I had travel more", "I wish I had appreci the peopl in my life more". It is never about the thing that thei obsess and worri about but about the thing that bring a smile to their faces: time with friend and family, a dai at the beach, a surpris birthdai party, cuddl in bed with our littl kids, help out, laughter, good meals, wonder cultur events, love pets, deep and meaning convers get the idea?

" I wish I stai stuck in my pain and resentment." With free will you can choos how you want to live the rest of your life. First we choos happi and then we begin to adopt those behavior that will make us happi and fulfilled. The choic is simple; the commit to stai true to your intent is a bit harderI doubt that on your own deathb you will say..

Her ar some tip on how to live a happier life:

it take you to new place that you never would have seen had you continu your futil attempt to resist reality-Stop resist what is and give up what you think life should look like. To stand in a fast move river and attempt to swim against the current is both exhaust and painful. One might even die try to fight against the natur flow of that river. Swim against the current keep you stuck in that on spot. Imagin what it would be like to simpli stop resist the river s flow and go with it? Not onli is it painless..

I promiseStop resist the flow of your life s direct and go with it. All sort of new opportun and possibl will open up for you..

- Stai conscious. Be awar of your attitud and perspect on life as you go through your day. Notic how you see things: ar you look for what s wrong or for what s right? Are you alwai seek more or ar you content and grate with what you do have? Are you be far too serious? Do you view life as hard and let that permeat everyth you do?

Commit to a perspect on life that serv you. Inflatable Advertising 44 What you commit to take all your attention. Where we put our attent will grow. It is possibl to change.

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